O.P.P.

OPP stands for Other People’s Property which means if something belongs to someone else don’t touch it. Basically, I’m talking about those people that specifically go after a person who already has a boyfriend or girlfriend. Why do people even do that? Nine times out of ten the person won’t leave their original boyfriend/girlfriend to start a relationship with you. More times, you become just a person on the side. Are you proud of yourself?

Unfortunately, there are quite a few of people who will never be anything but the girl/boy on the side. So let me give you some advice then. If you are in this role then play your part. Don’t start trying to boost your role. In basketball, there are players that start and players that come off the bench and fill in when people get injured right now you are just an injury replacement. A team won’t function if everyone tries to increase their role. Therefore just fall back and stop complicating things. When you make things all complicated you get a situation like Steve McNair.

THINGS YOU SHOULDN'T DO IF YOUR THE PERSON ON THE SIDE

1.Writing implicit Facebook messages on the wall of the person you are having an affair with.

2.Trying to get some public display of affection. Even Bill Clinton never kissed Monica Lewinksy in public.

3.Stalking people aka calling multiple times per day, showing up unannounced or without an invite. If he/she didn’t answer the first time why do you think if you call from a private number they will answer?

4.Telling him you are pregnant especially when you know you really are not.

5. Getting upset when he/she starts hanging out with their actual boyfriend/girlfriend/partner more than you. This is called the OJ Simpson Affect.

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