So I went on another date and decided as usual to blog about it. This was much more enjoyable then the previous infamous double date The reason I know it went well is because I have series of sings that tell me how well a date is gong. That being said I thought that it would be important to post these series of signs that help you know your date is going well.
1. She makes physical contact during the date
Small gestures like briefly touching your hand or your arm. Or legs rubbing against each other – more than can be considered coincidental. Physical contact is a sign someone feels comfortable with you and would like that physical contact. Not necessarily sex, so don’t get all excited and ask the waiter where the nearest place to get condoms is or open up the doors to the Ramping Shop. The touches are simply her way of letting you know she likes you.
.....My date did touch me multiple times and did did rub her legs against mine
2.Flow of conversation.
This isn’t always a good indicator – if she is nervous it may make her affect her, but generally if the conversations flow equally. So you are both talking – not you talking and her listening. Then it’s going well. For this one though you need to have at least 2 of the other signs. It is possible to meet someone who you can talk to but not be attracted to.
..... Conversation on my date was good. There were no long awkward pauses
3.There are references made to things she would like to show you.
Movies she would like so see with you or people she would like you to meet. This is a pretty obvious sign that she does see things progressing to the next level. Don’t panic - she isn’t picking out the china just yet.
.....She mentioned wanting to see Iron Man 2
4. She gives you a hug and/or kiss when you say goodbye. Doesn’t have to be a full on, tongue-down-throat-kiss. Can be a simple lip kiss. Take her lead on this one and don’t try shove your tongue between her pursed lips – you will go from hero to zero in 10 seconds! The kiss and/or hug is enough of a sign that she is likes you.
.....A gentleman doesn't kiss and tell. So since I'm not a gentleman so I will tell you I got one of the two.
5. She shares personal information about herself. Things like her family, her childhood, where she lives. Again a sign she is comfortable enough with you to share those things. It’s also a sign she is willing to be open with you.......This was hard to assess because she is generally an open person. So the stuff she told me I took it lightly
6. She is in no hurry to leave. If she lingers between courses, orders a second cup of coffee (or another bottle of wine). She is having a good time and doesn’t want to leave but doesn’t want to tell you that just yet, as she possible isn’t sure how you feel. So she tries to extend the meal for as long as she can. .....We went to two different places ie my secret dating place and dinner. Though the original plan was to only go to one place. Therefore, she was obviously in no rush to go home.
7. Eye contact.
Eye contact is vital. If she looks at you and can hold the eye contact she is definitely interested. Eyes tell a lot about people and she is trying to read you. Try not to look away. Hold her eyes (not literally). We did make eye contact numerous times. Then she would laugh wait does that mean she was laughing at me??
8. She is genuinely enjoying the date and pays attention to you
It is nor uncommon to find people on dates who spend more time on their blackberry as I learned the last time. However, if she seems to enjoying herself with multiple laughs and seems engaged then you are in a good place. However, try to be more interesting then her phone. The key with making a date interesting is that if she was unsure whether she liked you before an interesting date will make her come back to you again and will also tilt the scales in your favour. .....She seemed really engaged plus I'm a really funny person so its not hard to make a date enjoyable for me. Does that sound cocky? Who Cares.
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