The Dreaded Friend Zone

This is an interesting topic that I constantly hear about so I decided to blog on it. There is a fundamental difference between men and women that I always noticed. Women think its okay to put a man in a friend zone. Well women, its not okay. Its bullshit actually. I see women all the time creating "boundaries" they expect men to adhere to. For example, he is my friend so we can't have sex but we can chill/hangout and go on "friendly dates". What the hell kind of crap is that?? That is like winning the lottery and then the following week dying. Its not fair. Unfortunately for you, men do not think that way at all. This situation is most difficult when a man has gone out of the way to ask you for your number if he meets you somewhere random. Once a man is going to ask you for your number he doesn't sit there thinking oh I can't wait to be this girls friend or man this girl is gonna make a great friend. There is only a few things he is thinking and none of that is related to friendship. Therefore, give the guy a chance and don't automatically put him in a friendship label.

Women always think they have a choice as to whether they can put a man in a friend zone and he has to stay there. Well sorry that shit never works for me. Unless we mutually decide to be friends be prepared to continue to be romanced to the point you begin to actually like me. I have been very successful in this tactic. Women need to realize they have to leave the door open to more possibilities or risk losing a great guy because you kept him as a friend and he got fed up with your placement of him in that friend zone. Too many times I see women with loser guys that they are not compatible with when they have a great guy under their nose that is a "friend". They always use the same excuse oh I don't want to jeopardize my friendship with (insert name here). That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Men are willing to jeopardize their friendship with a female for a lot less like Tim Hortons coffee, beer or sex. So why not just take a chance on it too.

The thing is you can't help who you like. Hence, Sandra Bullock and that Jesse James character. If you keep someone as a friend long enough and they are interested in you eventually they will get frustrated by the relationship and you are guaranteed to lose a person who was probably a great friend and would have been an even better boyfriend/girlfriend.

Anyway, the point I'm making is that if you deep down in your heart are even the least bit interested in someone called a "friend" give it a shot. You only live once besides men and women never make good friends and statistically speaking friendships between the opposite sex lasts significantly shorter than same sex friendships so you are really not losing anything. Sorry, I just made up those statistics. But it seems logical right.