Make the Right Choice

Make the right choice.

So I’m back again to talk about knowing the qualities you want in a person before making a relationship with them and also being able to accept the person you have chosen.

I’m hearing a lot young girls want a thug/gangster that is going to treat them properly. Thug, who treats you properly? Isn’t that an oxymoron? (Rhetorical question and if you don’t know what oxymoron means sue the Ministry of Education). There is no logic in saying I want a “gangsta.” Thugs will not treat you properly. Isn’t a thug and a great guy exactly what Rihanna wanted? Now look at her Chris took her Umbrella-ella—ella-eh-eh-eh and beat her with it. Bet the next guy she picks will be less DMX and more Anderson Cooper.

Men, if you have an idea of the qualities you want don’t let a big butt and smile change your thinking.. I hear guys all the time saying I don’t want to be with a girl who already has a kid. Yeah and then that same dude is Facebooked at Wonderland riding the Tea-cups with his girl and her child. If you knew this is what not what you wanted why pursue it? There is no chance she is going to put you ahead of her child. It’s a package deal my friend. Like Matt Damon and Ben Affleck in the late 90’s. People only wanted Matt Damon in the movie but you are going to have to settle with his friend Affleck as well. However, if you really like her suck it up and make friends with her child aka little Jimmy/Jane Bastard. I know what your thinking hey she lied to me I started to like her and made her my girlfriend before I knew about her child. Well my friends ask yourself if she hid something like this from you, what else could she be hiding? (Food served at Red Lobster?Crabs??)

I hate seeing people say I want a girl/guy that’s really hot. The question is can you handle it? If your significant other is hotter than you be prepared for other people to look at them and so stop being jealous. You asked for it didn’t you?

Finally, to the people who want career-oriented individuals who are really ambitious and make a lot of money.. Shut up when they don’t come home at night because they have some super important work to do. You knew he/she cared more about their career than anything else when you met them and Zebra can’t change their stripes.

Final thoughts:
Make some realistic choices people and pick proper qualities because in the end it is you whose stuck with a person who you don’t like and have to figure out a way to get out of the relationship.