Alright so I'll year those who followed me got a man's perspective. However, as you know there is two signs to every coin and I thought it was only fitting that. I bring out a woman's perspective. That being said, I decided to let my good friend from www.lolamack.com bless my page with some of her knowledge. So enjoy.
So my close friend has asked me to write a little blog about relationships and dating. Of course this is a topic we are all too familiar with. But let’s narrow it down to the nitty gritty, let’s talk about the one thing all females have either encountered in their life time or heard many stories about. Men who cheat on their beloved girlfriends. Yes, we hear about this every day, it surrounds us through friends, music and celebrity life. It is so common that some don’t even see it as a negative impact on relationships. How so? Lets look at Mr. Tiger Woods, he cheated, and while the media takes hold of his life others justify his mistakes as being “normal” because “everyone does it”. So when do we press the brakes on this painful act of selfishness? I say it stops when we as ladies take control of our relationships and stop being so blinded by the truth. At this point you’re probably thinking, “What is she talking about” or” Just get to the point,” Well, it’s simple, a relationship should involve two participating partners that are willing to commit, trust and love each other EQUALLY. Now, ladies if you’re not doing you’re part in the relationship then your man will stray, and find someone who will explore their needs to the correct potential. No one is perfect, but if you are building a foundation with someone, there is no room for errors. What is the key to our missing link? COMMUNICATION. Some enter a relationship not fully understanding what is expected by the other participant, which leads to dysfunction (in more areas then one). So instead of weeping and breaking out the Beyonce songs, let’s tackle the expectations of each other and really be in tune with your partner. For example, in the beginning of the relationship it was bliss, and then things started to change. Yet this is an important aspect most ladies ignore. How do I know he is cheating? Well, we won’t turn into Inspector Gadget, but being straightforward, has his calls died down? Do you see him often? Is he all of a sudden busy? Does he still compliment you? Does he still leave those sweet messages on your voicemail? Do you feel a little void in the relationship? If your answers aren’t so pleasant then maybe it’s time to re-evaluate those expectations and communicate before Mr. Right becomes Mr. IHateYou, Hey I’m just saying…
Signing off, Lola Mack.
www.lolamack.com
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