Disclaimer: The following may be crass or controversial. But it is still my opinion.
I always hear a lot of women complaining they can’t find any good men. Looking for a quality man is like police and racial profiling, if you don’t go to the right areas, you are not going to get anyone you want. Meeting someone at the club while your drunk isn’t the best option because the man is only there for one reason and it isn’t to pick up a wife. Men don’t sit around at home thinking hey lets all go to the club tonight to look for a woman we can have long term relationships with. Furthermore, some of you need to stop giving your number out to every guy in the club, especially to the same group of friends. I know you feel like your being friendly and you will increase your odds of getting a man …..but for everyone else that sees you in club you r coming across toooooo friendly (Get it? Rhymes with crank?? See picture above). When giving your number out in a place such as a mall try not to put so much stock in it. Most of the time these interactions never involve much of a conversation beyond the superficial sense therefore someone has asked you for your number based solely on your looks.Do you really want someone to ask for your number based upon what you look like or you in its entirety? (Rhetorical Question Don’t Answer). However, there are exceptions to my opinion so don’t crucify me over this.
How about trying to meet people in places that you have an interest in? I know it is easier said than done but hey its my opinion and you are reading it. Assuming you are religious try the Church or your other place of worship. If you like food or cooking, try a supermarket. Enjoy working out, try the gym. I can go on and on. But I won’t list anymore. Be creative. At least then you have something in common to build or, rather than a physical one that won’t last as long.
Alright I’m done I’m going to the bar to go look for my next wife.
what the hell is this, nii?
ReplyDeleteA Gaza mi seh. This is some funny stuff but uno talk di tings dem. Keep it up.
ReplyDeleteI agree to some degree. I believe that if a female is purposely going to the club to find a future life partner dressed like the lil kim of 1998 then someone should give her Dr. Phils number. Then again some men are looking for just that in a wife. But to say that the good men are found in church or the grocery store i believe is not properly accurate. Some men that were raised in the church end up killing their wife or having affairs on the side. It is different for every guy and also on what each individual is looking for. But i totally understand your view point, and women need to stop complaining all together and focus on them, maybe they will solve the problem then. Its not always the man's fault, some women bring it on themselves. Good job Nii, keep it up.
ReplyDeleteEveryone's opinion is taken seriously.
ReplyDeleteI did not say good men are found in the grocery store or church. I was just saying that look for men in places where you have an interest in, rather than, just going to a club. This gives you an opportunity to already have something in common to build upon.